Dan

I feel like Dan deserves his own post. We are lucky that he has been able to take work off as long as he needs as we navigate my new diagnosis. I say "we" because this is definitely a family journey. Dan is my point of contact for all of my scheduling, doctor calls to review results, etc. He is researching every supplement, diet, and additional treatment to make sure we get ahead of this. He, quite literally, has not left my side since I came home from my obgyn's office. Since my surgery I have not made one meal. He has researched the most nutrient dense food that I need, prepared all of my meals, and cleaned to top it off!

He checks in with me regularly to see how I'm doing physically and emotionally. I keep a lot of thoughts in my head so he's always trying to figure out what I'm feeling. He is determined to keep me here as long as he can and will spare no expense. 

In more ways than one, he is trying to take whatever burden he can from me. Dan is consumed with researching everything he can about my diagnosis, the drugs that are available, and the best doctors. He even considered getting my treatment at MD Anderson in Houston to ensure that I was getting the best care.

I can truly say that when we were married there were so many qualities he has that I didn't know I would need. I could not have asked for a better partner to go through this with me. 



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